My Husband's Under Here Somewhere: Collectors, Packrats, And Compulsive Hoarders

Hoarders collect to excess, filling bathtubs, closets, kitchens, garages, storage shedsùfloor-to-ceilingùto render their living spaces uninhabitable. TheyÆre so consumed they lose jobs, family and friends, homes, health, and occasionally their lives. To the rest us, these people seem bizarre or mentally ill, and we view their challenges with impatience, frustration and simplistic answers. Yet a true fix isnÆt so simple. My HusbandÆs Under Here Somewhere, however, strives to unearth them. Morbidly fascinating tales abound as the lives of hoarders who amass animals and collectors who spin out of control are examined. The science behind hoardingùincluding its link with Obsessive-Compulsive disordersùas well as promising forms of treatment, meet with consideration. Our materialistic culture, one thatÆs obsessed with with having more and more, further informs the narrative. Certain types of stockpiling stem from challenging life experiences. A fellow whoÆd been imprisoned in a Russian Gulag spent the remainder of his days amassing keys. Jodin, a resistance fighter during World War II, is a consummate saver of twine. For her, a possession of such insignificance once meant the difference between extinction and survival. As a boy, NormanÆs father insisted the house be kept as neat as a pin. Should anything fall out of placeùabsolutely anythingùand he got beaten. So nowadays, he thoroughly enjoys his messes and views them as a way to get even. Ordinary hoarders and extreme collectors notwithstanding, theyÆre also found among the rich and famous. Peter the Great kept a human zoo of freakish oddities, and also enjoyed excising his subjectsÆ teeth, adding them to his vast assemblage. The hapless Collyer brothers crammed their Manhattan brownstone to the brim and accidentally entombed themselves within it. Unable to part with his shorn locks and nail clippings, Howard Hughes stored them away for ôsafekeeping.ö Then thereÆs ChinaÆs remarkable Emperor Qin. After he conquered all surrounding kingdoms, he constructed 270 palaces to live in. As if that werenÆt enough, he built roads and dug irrigation canals alongside, standardized laws, established a system of weights and measures, created a form of currency, and then formalized the use of written characters. While not a hoarder by today'sÆ standards, he was, quite possibly, the first to promulgate the axiom, ôHe who dies with the most toys wins.ö Eccentricity, wealth and death aside, each of the aforementioned had way too much stuff, which is a problem familiar to most of us. Dare to quest for answers as to why this is so, and our acquisitive culture must be examined. Harnessing humor and compassion, My HusbandÆs Under Here Somewhere does precisely that. As the first of its kind, this book of narrative non-fiction looks at hoarding and collecting as part of a continuum. And, while many self-help decluttering books and hoarding-related memoirs, as well as works dealing with Obsessive-Compulsive Hoarding already exist, none of them focus on the psycho-spiritual ramifications of suffocating to death beneath heaps of possessions. Hopefully, this publication will appeal to hoarders and collectors, as well as family, friends and neighbors impacted by the hoarderÆs behaviors. ItÆs also for clinicians and public agencies in search of positive ways to respond. Lastly, it's for curious folks who seek to understand.

Author: Janice Strubbe Wittenberg, RN, William C. Strubbe

Publisher: Spiral Publishing

Publication Date: May 08, 2017

Number of Pages: 210 pages

Language: English

Binding: Paperback/Psychology

ISBN-10: 0989562328

ISBN-13: 9780989562324