50 Things Wives need to Know about their Husbands

When you go through challenges and disappointments in your marriage, consider them as opportunities to help you grow in your relationship. If you are not learning from your experiences, ask yourself am I a good student? If you are a good student learn and grow, you will probably not go through the same experience over and over again. Marriage is a partnership between two individuals working together to obtain a common goal, to live together with each other in love, unity, peace, and harmony. The first few years of marriage are very difficult, there is a continual power struggle happening between the husband and the wife. Hang in there! One of you may be from a home where the mother or father was dominating which will have a tremendous influence on your upbringing. If this is the case, then no one wants to give up their power or control; therefore, it becomes imperative for you to compromise. Marriage is full of compromises; one person cannot have their way all of the time, you will have challenges. Once you all compromise with one another, it is time to move forward in your marriage to live together happily ever after. Remember, you and your spouse did not get married to raise or change one another, your parents have already completed that process. Do not spend valuable or unnecessary time trying to do this, it will make each of you miserable and frustrated. It doesn't matter how long you have been married. There are things you will discover about each other that you did not see or know in the beginning. Some of these things you will not like, you must be willing to accept one another differences and learn how to live with them. Just think about this situation for a moment, how would you like it if you married someone just like you? This is not the ideal situation to be in, the two of you would have a difficult time getting along with each other. During our dating process, we do not show our spouses our true side. They only saw the good side because we were trying to impress them and not stress them. Once the wedding day and the honeymoon is over, we let the real person immerge. This person was very different from the one they dated. The husband and wife then realize, they both have some issues and challenges to work through. When you ignore a problem or a situation, it will not resolve itself or go away on its own. Once you deal with the challenges in your marriage, do not be surprised if they continue to occur again during your marriage. Challenges will always be a part of the marriage; you must be committed to doing the necessary work. They did not appear overnight and want disappear overnight. What if they linger for many years, are you prepared to handle them? The challenges in your marriage should not be an excuse for you to contemplate divorcing or giving up on your mate. You should use them as learning tools to find a solution so you all can enjoy each other.

Author: Cassandra Cox

Publisher: Independently Published

Publication Date: Jan 11, 2021

Number of Pages: 208 pages

Binding: Paperback or Softback

ISBN-10: NA

ISBN-13: 9798592306525